likes n dislikes! ❀

♡ drawing, video games, books & poetry, music, plants and animals, writing/journaling, baking (and cooking sometimes too), my snake plant named 'maru', rabbits, bush dogs, moths, pigeons/doves, otters, seals, sea slugs & snails, naps, kirby, miffy, coffee, energy drinks, plushies, calico critters, keychains & pins, social sciences, thanatology, learning languages, fashion, aigis from persona 3, jack-o & elphelt valentine from guilty gear, asirpa from golden kamuy, anya from mouthwashing, fade, sova, & cypher from valorant, watching figure skating, watching formula 1, hanging out with my amazing friends, etc!T_T toxic people, bigots, itchy bug bites, cold windy weather, plain tasting foods, my habit of overthinking, not being efficient in my work, being overstimulated, etc.

other info! ❀

- i am a college student studying for an associate's in social and human services.
- i hope to become a case manager and pursue another form of social work job in the farther future.
- besides english, i speak intermediate level japanese. i am currently learning german!
- in terms of writers, i especially like sylvia plath, osamu dazai, & virginia woolf. i generally enjoy confessional poets overall.
- i have a flexible music taste but my most played artist is aespa. lately i've been enjoying japanese shoegaze bands and ericdoa.
- i was born and raised roman catholic. my confirmation saint is mary magdalene!
- my gender identity (demigirl) is a form of non-binary identity where the individual who partially identifies and/or experiences womanhood. some demigirls feel another gender identity partially as well. i feel partially agender.

rules! ❀

i will not interact if you're bigoted (basically any negative/discriminatory -ism or -phobic), think its funny or okay to be mean & toxic, self-diagnosers/cyberchondriacs, excessively sexual, radtrads, anti-theists, people who indulge in 'virtue signalling', etc.
this is more so of a list of sorts of people i will intentionally avoid and block. i cant really stop people from interacting with me entirely.

btw! ❀

i don't deal well with people who are consistently negative and genuinely mean in any shape or form. i will block you and i will most likely not consider unblocking you. if you make me uncomfortable, i will block you as well. i especially don't do well with people who are hypersexual and/or flirt too much as a joke, it makes me uneasy.

before you interact! ❀

- even though i am autistic (& adhd, both diagnosed), i don't like when people overuse 'tone tags' with me. it feels patronizing and infantilizing. i do sometimes misunderstand peoples tone or intention but i don't like being treated as i have no social capability whatsoever.
- i suffer from an anxiety disorder that can cause me to overthink and/or panic. i will make it obvious if i need to take a moment or if you're causing me to feel overwhelmed.
- i struggle with mental health issues. i may go semi-inactive every now and then (unless you're someone close to me).

btw! ❀

please respect my boundaries! i often will tell you if you make me uncomfortable or uneasy. if not directly, i will try to make it clear in some shape or form.
i wont hold anything against you if you didn't know or forgot, but please don't take advantage of that.
i don't like having conflict with others, i try my best to be peaceful and considerate. just treat me with basic human decency and we'll be fine!
thank you so much for understanding and i hope we get along <3

i have other social media, but i have chosen to not share them due to privacy! if we become friends, i don't mind sharing other social media. although, id rather not have certain things relating to me just out in the open.
i hope you understand!
thank you for reading, i hope you have a lovely rest of your day!!
(if the one reading this is a friend of mine, remember that i love you! mwah <3)

art on main page by toffee_32